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Say What?!

1/17/2014

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Assorted Problems and Graces:

I happened to be reading the biography of a wonderful French missionary Archbishop of Kentucky, Flaget,  who died around 1840 at age 87. He wrote just before his death this sterling sentence:
"I forget everything: could I but forget myself I would be a perfect man." 

Ah the witty French.

I always try to pray to talk more softly, but I forget. Since I don't hear too well, I don't hear, either, that my voice is too loud. But it annoys lots of people that loudness. I got an insight into it in prayer today. Do I talk too loud and too vehemently because I am compensating for being a little, short person, and also a woman with, therefore seemingly less clout than taller men?  If the shoe fits, any reader.....!  I know I love a soft woman's voice and, myself, find louder women's voices jangling. 


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Incidents with tech: Most older people talk about the tech transition: a few with glee who adore the new gadgets; most with chagrin all the way to despair. Some absolutely refuse to engage in any tech thing from the TV remote to I-phones. Others like me, forced ourselves to learn enough computer and cell phone to be able to teach, write books, or simply to keep connected to beloved family.  

But just a little incident, such as a faculty meeting where the Vice President of Academics is not present but is on the speaker phone, is enough to rattle my nerves. I realize how much I get clues to what others are thinking underlying what they are saying, from facial expressions or other body language. Without those signals I easily interpret anything negative said in words on a phone with the most dismal theories about the speaker's intentions!  Sigh! So much do such things bother me that I begged that Vice President to give us a workshop face to face on campus for older faculty on adjusting to tech communication. He said he would. I will let you know any insights and healings I get from it!

Meanwhile, of course, the healing for insecurity is always trust in God's Providence. 

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    Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. She is a dedicated widow, mother, and grandmother.
    Ronda converted to the Catholic Faith from a Jewish, though atheistic, background and has been a Professor of Philosophy and Theology at Loyola Marymount University, the Seminary of the Archdiocese of Los Angeles, and Franciscan University of Steubenville. She is an international speaker and author of some fifty books about Catholic thought, practice and spirituality. One of her latest is LAST CALL, published by Goodbooks Media.
    Dr. Ronda is currently retired and living in Corpus Christi, Texas after her years of teaching philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut.
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